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Safe Harbor Dementia Planning
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Charting a Course for the Journey of Dementia
As we overcome adversity in our lives, we will become stronger. Then we will be better able to help others, those who are working, in their turn, to find a safe harbor from the storms that rage about them.
-- Joseph B. Wirthlin
A Safe Harbor
"Any port in a storm" is a saying that has nautical connotations, meaning that in an emergency situation, any solution will do, even one that is normally unacceptable. Yes, a diagnosis of dementia is an emergency situation, but there are acceptable solutions, there are safe harbors in which to seek refuge.
Connelly Law is committed to providing our clients with a safe harbor, making the process of planning for the future of those diagnosed with dementia, as well as their families, as pain-free as possible. We understand the emotional and practical challenges that come with a dementia diagnosis, and our team works closely with clients to identify options that prioritize comfort, security, and dignity. We guide families through complex legal decisions, including estate planning, guardianship, and long-term care arrangements, ensuring every step is clear and manageable.

Our law firm holds the philosophy that dedicated customer service and individual attention can actually make this frightening and difficult process empowering. We believe that taking the time to listen and understand each client’s unique needs allows us to create customized legal strategies that provide real peace of mind. By offering compassionate support and expert guidance, we strive to transform uncertainty into confidence, helping families feel equipped and in control during an otherwise overwhelming experience.
Diagnosis Dementia

Receiving a dementia diagnosis can be an overwhelming and life-changing experience. It's normal to feel a wide range of emotions, including shock, fear, confusion, or even disbelief. These feelings are valid, and it's important to recognize that everyone's journey and response are unique. The first step is to give yourself permission to process the news at your own pace, without judgment.
In the days and weeks that follow, reaching out to trusted loved ones, friends, or healthcare professionals can help you navigate these new emotions. Support systems, whether family, friends, or specialized
counselors are vital for providing comfort, guidance, and practical advice. You may find it helpful to talk openly with those you trust about your feelings, concerns, and questions. If you are unsure what to say to others, start by sharing only what feels comfortable for you—there is no obligation to disclose more than you wish.
There is no right or wrong way to feel at this stage, and acceptance often takes time. As you begin to process the diagnosis, consider seeking reputable sources of information about dementia, such as healthcare providers, support groups, or organizations specializing in dementia care. Educating yourself empowers you to make informed decisions about your care, plan for the future, and explore available treatments or support services.
Moving forward, it may be helpful to create a care plan that addresses medical needs, daily routines, and emotional well-being. Collaborate with healthcare professionals to discuss treatment options, therapies, and strategies to maintain independence for as long as possible. Remember, you are not alone—many resources exist to support you and your loved ones throughout this journey. Professional guidance, empathy from those around you, and a willingness to learn can make the process more manageable and help foster hope for the future.
Making Plans
You will have medical and other healthcare professionals who can provide you with information about the course of the disease and the best way to treat it. But there are also some very important legal considerations that must become a part of planning for someone with a diagnosis of dementia.
Early legal planning is vital to ensure that patients' wishes are honored, their assets are protected, and their care needs are met. By proactively addressing key legal matters, families can reduce uncertainty and facilitate smoother transitions as the disease progresses. There are some things that need to be thought about and discussed. Our Safe Harbor services include:

Preparing for Long-Term Care Needs: Long-term care planning involves evaluating available options, such as in-home assistance, assisted living, or skilled nursing facilities. Legal documents such as a living will, durable power of attorney, and care agreements clarify preferences for care and ensure that chosen arrangements are legally recognized. It is important to review and update these documents regularly as needs and circumstances change. This also includes Medicaid Planning and Medicaid Crisis Planning.
Preparing for Healthcare Needs: Advance directives, including a healthcare proxy and medical power of attorney, allow individuals to specify their wishes regarding medical treatment if they become unable to communicate. These documents guide healthcare providers and loved ones in making decisions that align with the patient's values and preferences. Discussing these directives with all involved parties helps avoid confusion during emergencies.
Benefit Planning and Application Process: Individuals diagnosed with dementia may be eligible for government benefits, including Medicare, Medicaid, Social Security Disability Insurance, and veterans’ benefits. Understanding the eligibility criteria, gathering necessary documentation, and applying early can help cover costs related to care and medical treatment. Consulting with a legal or benefits advisor ensures applications are completed accurately and efficiently.
Arranging Finances and Property: Estate planning is essential for managing finances and property after a dementia diagnosis. It’s important to promptly draft or update a will to ensure the client’s wishes are clearly documented and legally protected. Establishing trusts can provide additional safeguards, helping to manage assets and potentially reduce estate taxes. Organizing financial accounts makes oversight easier and ensures that important documents are accessible when needed. Asset management strategies should also include the appointment of a financial power of attorney. This trusted individual can oversee transactions, pay bills, and make investment decisions, safeguarding resources against potential misuse or fraud. In addition, preparing the property for sale can be a crucial step. This may involve arranging professional cleanout services to remove personal items and declutter, as well as providing security services to protect vacant property from theft or damage.
Appointing a Representative: Appointing a trusted individual to make decisions on behalf of the client is a critical step. The legal process typically requires completing and notarizing documents such as a durable power of attorney or guardianship forms. Selecting a representative who understands the client’s wishes and values ensures those wishes are carried out when the client is no longer able to advocate for themselves.
Living Safely and Independently: Maintaining safety and independence for as long as possible is a priority for many individuals with dementia. Legal safeguards, such as home safety evaluations, consent forms, and monitoring agreements, can support autonomy while minimizing risks. Regularly reviewing living arrangements and legal protections helps patients adapt to changing needs and preserves their dignity.
At Connelly Law, we are dedicated to guiding you through the complex legal, financial, and social challenges that accompany a dementia diagnosis. Our team not only possesses extensive technical expertise in addressing the unique needs of individuals and families affected by this condition, but also draws on our personal experiences to provide compassionate and informed support. We recognize that early engagement with an elder law attorney can significantly expand your options, helping you make thoughtful decisions about care and future planning while protecting your loved one's interests.
Unlike firms that rely on standardized approaches, the staff at Connelly Law takes the time to understand your circumstances from multiple perspectives. We know that every individual and family faces distinct concerns, and we are committed to developing tailored strategies that reflect your specific goals and values. Our holistic approach ensures that your voice is heard and your priorities are respected throughout the process.
Our mission is to offer you and your family a safe harbor—a place where you can find clarity, reassurance, and reliable guidance during an uncertain time. We are here to listen, support, and advocate for you every step of the way.
Please do not hesitate to contact us today at 401-724-9400 to schedule a confidential consultation and learn how we can help you navigate this journey with confidence and peace of mind.
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